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Thanks for all the help,

I know each and every one of you have endured your own situation and have based you opinions one that.  As of now, I think Momfortwo is the most logical...But we will see!

It ain't over until it's over...

We are on the West Coast and the planned move is to the East Coast...No way I can move.  With his job, it is a solid that the move is set.  I don't doubt that he has to move....

Because I want to be apart of my kids lives and raising them....

Yes, I believe she would adhere to whatever we agree on or what the Judge orders...She is not vindictive in anyway.

Both girls are under 10, so I don't think their opinion really matters.  I know they have a strong attachment to the Ex's Husband.  I would say yes, if I had to answer honestly.

New twist....

Ex has remarried, her spouse works for the goverment and he is being transfered next year.  She told me as a means to discuss options and give us time to think about it.  She is offering all summers with my girls and all holidays, with us splitting the cost of travel.  Now I am fighting for over 50% of custody since she is moving with the girls...Don't know how this will play out now, it's obvious that she is not fleeing and willing to give me a lot of visitation with the girls.  I don't know how a judge will view this now?

She has also done a lot of research on the new local area, schools/hospitals/doctors, etc, etc...They have done their homework and studies.  Plus she has family in the new area as well.

I think we are beyond making amends

I had my lawyer submit to her attorney that I am unhappy with the current agreement of one week on one week off for the summer.  I don't want it to be just for the summer...We will see what happens.

Is that what a judge see's already?  Or do I not have a fighting chance?

Update:

She got her lawyers to push the trial back until Nov/Dec'ish....I don't know if that is good or bad?