as for phone records, i use highspeed internet provider which keep all call logs. i have had to sign a form and get it notorized and faxed to the legal team. these records will show she never contacted us via telephone but maybe 3 times in 2 years. she is threating she has 9 months of MSN logs of me being mean to her, saying i will call her and not calling. but in reality the only thing i said was it's your responsibility to call to talk to our child not mine. she had my password and i feel like she may have done something strange as far as the MSN logs go. i do not see how that can prove that it was me chatting and not say her roomate or online boyfriend? my lawyer told me not to worry about it she is a unfit mother due to the testimony and 14 declarations on eye witness abuse to our child. not to mention womens refuge report of it. thats right a man went there for help because i was scared for our saftey and needed help. she went to the mental hospital for suicide and threats of killing the family then herself. and i even have a myspace printout of her saying how she wants to go to sleep and never wake up. how her medications do not help her depression and so she quit taking them alltogether. i know i am worryingwhere i shouldn't but this is my son that i hold very dear to me and will do anything to protect him. i thank each and everyone of you for your insight, and believe it or not you have been a great support for my son and myself going through these times. godbles each and every one of you.