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I just got home from work and am hoping it doesn't start until 9 central time, it's 8:20 now.

Exclusive interview by Cynthia McFadden tonite.

Only heard a short snip on GMA this morning.  What I did hear was

today begins Marks' supervised 1 week visit that she has to pay for, and poor little Marks doesn'thave a job.

And now Dad may be asking for support and again she doesn't have a job poor thing.

I once again e-mailed GMA and asked them to visit this site and read about the real pain of parents who have had their children ripped away.

There a ALOT of second wives here, Kitty and I are only two of them.  THis site has a wealth of info please use as often as you feel the need
and congatulations on stumbling into this site.  I've been here over 4 yrs and we couldn't hve gotten as far as we did without it!!

GOOD LUCK to you and the kids.

First the wisconsin fathers group is   //www.wisconsinfathers.org

second look up relevant statutes  //www.legis.state.wi.us
particularly statutes # 948.31  and EVERYTHING in statute # 767
and statute # 968.31

the third site is   //www.wcca.wicourts.gov   this site has relevant court info like if she or anyone she runs around with has a court record.

These 3 sites and SPARC have helped us more than our attorney!!

Both my 20 and 21 yr olds said that they will use this form of "discipline".

I must have done something right anyway.

taught, and this is from the mouth of my 20 and 21 yr olds, are
First of all,  Their Dad and I love them VERY Much and got along for their sake.    Thay both said that if they ever divorce they hope to be like their dad and I. We both drove regularly about 3 hours to meet 1/2 way for their dads visits.  We NEVER had a court order for visits, we just did it.

THe second was when you're angry with someone you love,  You have to hold their hand until your anger subsides.   When they were younger this was the best form of discipline for my kids when they fought.


THe other thing I wish I would have done, was not to use the fake baby from school, but to have each of them babysit for a toddler for a full 36-48 hours (with supervison of course).  I think that this would be much more effective than just talking to them.  Maybe start at 6 am and babysit through 8 pm of the following day.  What a form of birth control.

Unfortunately, none, of my 3 oldest are married.  23 isn't in a relationship right now, BUt my 20 and 21 yr olds both had babies in the last year.  After seeing what DH has gone through over the last 4 yrs they are scared to death of marriage!!

This is for a friend of my sons....Mom is 18, drinks ALOT smokes around baby (7 Months old), leaves baby with her parents for extended periods of time.

Dad and Mom were together (he thought) when he entered basic training.  He came home yesterday.  When he called Mom to tell her
he'd be home she just said, Well, I wont be there.

She packed ALL his belongings befoer he'd even left basic.

She's now putting all kinds of conditions on how he can visit his son.

Her parents home is a disgusting pigsty!!  I babysat for her when she was small, and things haven't improved at all, filthy, garbage, animal feces throughout the house.

I suggested the following:  File for full custody immediately. Maybe he'll get it based on the home situation, but at least he can negotiate to 50/50 .

Baby had pneumonia. She's refusing to give him medical info. However, we did find WIsconsin statute 767 which says, A parent is entitled to ALL school and medical recards, regardless of whether that parent has legal custody or not.

She wants him to only visit at her parents home.  I thought that was a WONDERFUL IDEA!!  Take a camera, take pics of the filth the baby is living in.  He could just tell her parents that he wants pics of baby.  Or better yet a videa camera.

Wi is also a one-party state.  He'll be picking up my microcassette recorder and phonecorder later today. She told his sister that she's going to tell the court that he never gave her any money.  However he has all the cancelled checks.

If anyone has other suggestions I'd really appreciate it.

We'll be helping this young man fill out a parenting plan and the papers to file by the end of the week.

I also told him to get a sewn-bound notebook and start documenting.


THANKS EVERYBODY!!

LMAO!!   HEEE HEEE!!

both are right here on this page

one is   Glenn Sacks

the other is  Mommy Dearest

Read the posts regarding the  GOOD MORNING AMERICA story and the one regarding Mohter loses custody of twins to father