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#11
Someone asked where to find these definitions in Wisconsin statues. Can't find the original post. They're not in WI. 767, They're in Chapter DWD 40 which you can access on DWD's website.
#12
I share my clothing budget with my stepdaughter. We keep a full wardrobe for her here. BM is always calling and asking to "borrow" outfits for her family parties and functions. Couldn't even buy the child a swimsuit this summer because she is so broke(gets CS of $830. in a 4 week month and $1250. in a five week month). I wash her clothes from her BM when she gets here, she wears our clothes while she's here and changes right before she leaves.
#13
If it was written into the court order that she was to carry the health insurance then she needed the court's permission to drop the insurance. If she did not go to court for this she is in contempt. Notify the clerk of courts immediately! Send copy of court order with that part highlighted and a copy of the notification from CS.
#14
You and the child support office have the right to see LEGAL proof. An actual receipt on the day care's letterhead would be standard. If your ex will not provide this you could send the owner of the day care a certified letter giving her 14 days to provide you with statement on her letterhead for as far back as three years of her charges and your ex's payments on your children's day care costs. Inform her that if you do not receive this statement and it does not show what your ex paid,when it was paid, if it was cash, check, or credit card, including any "discounts" she gave your ex, that you will be forwarding copies to the IRS, your State income taxation office, and the state day care licensing board informing them that she is refusing to provide accurate proof of charges and payments. Send a copy to your ex "for her records".
#15
You want to show that you made an effort and received no response or cooperation. Send her or better have your attorney send her a letter stating you have your financial info ready to exchange. Do not give her your info without getting hers if that is what was ordered! Send  the letter certified mail so you have proof she received it. Give her a deadline of 14 days to respond . If she doesn't respond notify the mediator you had and request another session. Know what you want when you get there, if she's been non-responsive or ignored the mediator's instructions, you may get what you ask for. I did!!!
#16
Tell the Mom that you'll be happy to send the IRS a copy of her court document claiming she's paying her own Mother $600.00 a month cash. Mention you hope her Mother has been claiming the income. See if her story changes then.
#17
Child Support Issues / RE: I had no idea...
Jul 14, 2004, 07:03:39 PM
Try to get proof. Videotape him. Talk to the place employing him, I'm sure the IRS would love to know that he's got unreported cash coming in and they are paying cash without withholding taxes. If he's under doctor's order's ask the court to have him file for Social Security Disability if he won't do so himself, You can then file for the children's benefit off his S.S.D.
#18
Child Support Issues / RE: I had no idea...
Jul 14, 2004, 06:57:28 PM
Most states will set CS for an voluntarily unemployed parent at what their earning capacity is for their job history and education level. You could also ask for a change in custody naming you as having primary placement and reducing his placement time to allow him time for job searching. Sometimes it's all in how you word things to the court.
#19
Child Support Issues / RE: Day Care
Jul 14, 2004, 06:29:14 PM
Do you have joint custody? If the camp will interfere with your court ordered visitation she is not supposed to do this without your permission, unless the court order specifically says she can. You are also supposed to get the time made up to you if they do go. Without this stated in the court order and without your permission she should be financially liable for the entire amount. Send her a certified letter stating your opposition to losing this time with your children and refusal of permission. Keep a copy!
#20
If your daughter is not receiving Social Security for being handicapped or disabled and never has, you have a good chance of having the CS discontinued. My daughter was in special ed. for learning disabilities but it made no difference because she graduated from high school. See a lawyer right away!