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Start taping the calls. Keep a log. Check your states laws on taping phone calls. My state says as long as one person(me) knows the call is being taped it's legal and admissable. You may have grounds for a change of custody>

Someone asked where to find these definitions in Wisconsin statues. Can't find the original post. They're not in WI. 767, They're in Chapter DWD 40 which you can access on DWD's website.

Be pro active. Send other parent a certified letter offering to switch, make sure to use specific dates and times so there is no misunderstanding as to where the kids are and when. Give a deadline when you need an answer (nicely). Keep a copy with proof of delivery. This will show the court that you are trying to be fair and are promoting the kids relationship with the other parent.

Someone asked where to find these definitions in Wisconsin statues. Can't find the original post. They're not in WI. 767, They're in Chapter DWD 40 which you can access on DWD's website.

If the BM is working 2nd shift and you work 1st shift you should be able to get primary placement. What state do you live in?

How old are the children? My husband's ex requested more placement time. We found out shortly that she wasn't using the time to spend with the child, but had lost her babysitter for her 3 other children( under 3 yrs. old) and was using the 11 year old as a free sitter.

Keep track of all time he is with you. Wait and see if she brings up having him come during summer. If she is enjoying her freedom, she may not. Start checking into GOOD lawyers in this field NOW!