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It also states that the court that issued the decree retains jurisdiction. She is trying to get it changed here.

Thats how my decree states me having custody. The decree is from a different state than what I live in now. How do you think the courts where I live will interpretate?

To add to what armycoppertop said. I know for a fact if child support is not issued by the court, they he has to give you the differance between single and dependant BAH. If he is not talk to his 1st Sgt. Also I am single and have custody of my daughter been deployed and all that good jaz. You always have to fill out a parenting plan, even if your married in case your spouse has something happen to him/her while you are deployed.

I would contact TV stations and the State Dept.

To go along with Davy, you might want to do a little detective work on your own. Maybe rent a car for the weekend and watch the house (this is perfectly legal as long as your on a public street). When they leave follow and see if they go to a store or any public place, if so call the local pd and it can be done there.

I don't get it. Your not divorced because she wont sign the papers, though your pay child support. Has there been any custody designation made by the courts? If not you have every right to go pick your son up and put him on the plane yourself.  Also there is alot you can do on your own without a lawyer. You will have to put time and effort in. First and formost I would call CPS and inform them that she is refusing your son the treatment that he needs, that you have everything set up for him but she wont take him to the airport. Make sure you have all the documentation for them to back up what your saying. If not it will be like pissing in a fan and calling it a shower, don't do much good.

What stat are you in? Look up criminal custodial interference laws in your state. Then call the local pd and demand they do a report.

I took her today to start counseling. Here we can record phone calls if at least 1 party knows that its being recorded. Since the BM is in a shelter they don't allow phone calls in. That was another thing she done due to the fact that she couldn't get me arrested because I didn't do anything, she ran to a domestic violence shelter to make me look bad. But I have all the police reports that show she has been untruthfull. She told me that the place where they were at was full of nasty people and she was scared to be there and was glad that I came and got her. She even told her mother that she was going to climb out a window and leave at one point and the mother said go ahead.

CPS called me yesterday. They are going to come by my house next week. I am cool with that, I dont have anything to hide. They also told CPS that I am under military orders not to be around children under 12. They are reaching so hard to try to get me on something and its not working for them.  The BM has not tried to contact my D since I got her from the school on the 11th. My D is really upset, she knows that her mom can call her but as of right now she hasn't.  I just keep telling my D its not her fault and that daddy is working on it. Thats the best that I can do right now.

Are they in the middle of the divorce procedings? If so I would let her go and not show up to court and get a default. Or he can motion the court to not let her.