What painting? That's really just a self-portrait most days.......
Your advice is sound regarding providing certified copies of the order. It really just urks me to have to go to those lengths (involving folks not in the family...you know).
As for the trial, we had one. The outcome of which was the shift of custody to dad, at least temporarily. As mom stated previously, she will not accept it, ever. She is holding to her word. We have noticed a definite pattern of undermining since the new order was adopted. This is especially noticable on areas where we set up consequences for the kids and she will not uphold them. In fact, on one occassion we told SS he couldn't use his computer for 2 weeks. Well, mom bought him a new one so he could use it at her home. So, you know, her home is more desireable that way. It's very divisive. And the kids are the ones who suffer most.
At this point I believe we are doomed to high-conflict. It take two to cooperate, but only one to make cooperation impossible.
Thanks for your response!
Your advice is sound regarding providing certified copies of the order. It really just urks me to have to go to those lengths (involving folks not in the family...you know).
As for the trial, we had one. The outcome of which was the shift of custody to dad, at least temporarily. As mom stated previously, she will not accept it, ever. She is holding to her word. We have noticed a definite pattern of undermining since the new order was adopted. This is especially noticable on areas where we set up consequences for the kids and she will not uphold them. In fact, on one occassion we told SS he couldn't use his computer for 2 weeks. Well, mom bought him a new one so he could use it at her home. So, you know, her home is more desireable that way. It's very divisive. And the kids are the ones who suffer most.
At this point I believe we are doomed to high-conflict. It take two to cooperate, but only one to make cooperation impossible.
Thanks for your response!