I hope everyone had a good Christmas! We did! We were able to make it to my parents. The roads were fine in the morning when we went, only a few spots with any snow on the road and there was no ice. So that was good. BF came over in the morning after he got off work as he said he was going to. I let DD sleep until he arrived. I couldn't believe that I actually had to wake my 3 year old up on Christmas morning. So BF had texted me the Sunday before Christmas to ask what DD wanted that I had not already gotten her. I gave him a few ideas. And then when he came over Christmas morning he did not bring her anything. Don't get me wrong, there was no shortage of presents at our house. I actually had gone a little overboard anyway. But I couldn't believe that he didn't bring her any thing after he bothered to ask. I could even understand if he would have told her that he had gotten some things for her to stay at his house but he didn't say anything. I was really kind of annoyed by his whole visit (not because of the present issue) but he sat on the couch and hardly interacted with DD at all. DD had requested blueberry muffins for breakfast so I was in the kitchen after she opened presents. I figured that this would give DD and BF some time together without me sitting right there. And he didn't even talk to her unless she talked to him first. I was in the kitchen and she was bringing me toys to show me and for me to open. I kept directing her back to have her dad help her or for her to show him to try to get him to interact with her. And she kept asking him to come in her room so she could show him something and he just sat on the couch. And looking back now its kind of been like this for the last couple of times he has visited. If this is how much attention he is going to pay to her when I am there how much attention did he pay to her when they were out with his friends. In the beginning when he said he first wanted to see her I was skeptical but I thought it would be a good thing and I think I had lofty ideas about how we would be able to co-parent. I think reality has set in and I'm pretty sure its going to be a mess. When he left on Christmas he made no mention of when he would like to see DD again. I feel like he is the one who wanted to start seeing her so he should be the one to give me his work schedule or days when he would like to have her and he's not doing that. I don't feel like I should be the one to hound him. I am sure he is probably still mad at me from the whole incident last week. I did send him an email and apologize for the way I handled the situation (not for being upset). I told him that I did not intend for us to get in a big argument. I did tell him that he was right when we were arging when he said I didn't trust him. I told him that I am trying very hard to and that it is difficult when I feel he isn't being honest with me. And as far as I am concerned that incident is done and over with and we need to put it behind us and move forward. I'm really trying not to be the crazy BM that so many of you have to deal with and I thought I was doing a good job until the whole incident last week.