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but I thought I would update as to what is going on.
So far it has been 80 days since the father has called to check on his son, or even seen him. My son is 3 1/2 months old, he has seen him 4 times. I did end up getting a lawyer in which we had our first court date on June 23rd, which ended in request for DNA (which i knew was coming). I believe that every father has a right to feel they want to be "sure" which does not offend me, BUT he wants it because I didn't give our son HIS last name which as I explained in here that they would NOT allow me to put his last name on the b/c because he was not there to sign it and it went the same way 5 years ago when i had my daughter and her father took off. So people can say it all they want that I still could of given him his last name. No. They would not let me and he decided not to show up and sign it so that's his problem, he also had plenty of chances to go with me to sign the AkOP, but he was always too busy so I've said forget it. We were never married and my son will just continue to have my last name. So Court resumes on the 16th of August. My lawyer says the longer he doesn't contact his son, check on him or support him ... it's only hurting him.
but I thought I would update as to what is going on.
So far it has been 80 days since the father has called to check on his son, or even seen him. My son is 3 1/2 months old, he has seen him 4 times. I did end up getting a lawyer in which we had our first court date on June 23rd, which ended in request for DNA (which i knew was coming). I believe that every father has a right to feel they want to be "sure" which does not offend me, BUT he wants it because I didn't give our son HIS last name which as I explained in here that they would NOT allow me to put his last name on the b/c because he was not there to sign it and it went the same way 5 years ago when i had my daughter and her father took off. So people can say it all they want that I still could of given him his last name. No. They would not let me and he decided not to show up and sign it so that's his problem, he also had plenty of chances to go with me to sign the AkOP, but he was always too busy so I've said forget it. We were never married and my son will just continue to have my last name. So Court resumes on the 16th of August. My lawyer says the longer he doesn't contact his son, check on him or support him ... it's only hurting him.