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She just turned 11. She was 9 the last time her father saw her. Sorry. 11 more days!!

14 days until trial... JT's parents came up with the rest of the money!! Its a blessing and a curse... We sat down for "Family Meeting" and added up everything we had actually paid, not lost wages or gas for the hour drive to court or tolls or parking, just what we had PAID Drs, Investigators, visitation centers and LAWYERS!! Are you ready..... 56k to date....thats before JT's parents fork over the "Last"/"Next" 12-15k!!!!!

Anyhow... at this point I am complaining about the wrong things!!! I hope to be posting in 2 weeks with good news!! I really hope JT and MT get in the same room soon!!! Pray for us!!


We are gonna need lots of advice on what to do AFTER trial!!! That is when the real work helping MT will begin!!!

This is EXACTLY what we have been dealing with... She NEEDS to win in order to justify all that she has done! If the courts were to allow BD to see his daughter then how will she explain all she does done to the people around her, much less herself. The web of lies and the unbelievable destruction she has caused is almost unfathomable, she literally lives in a different reality than the rest of the world. What she has done is so blatant and impossible to ignore I hope to be posting good news soon! The social investigation suggests the Judge order psychological testing to determine if she has any pathologies... I am sure that will not go well.. Pathological does not even begin to explain it!! 

Thank you. JT and I have some pretty big decissions to make...  I must not be making myself clear.. After MT (his daughter) refussed the 3rd visit at the 1st place they would not set up any more appts for visits. The second plave interviewed her before even attempting to set up visits (after taking our $400) and stated she was refussing. There have been no attempts at visitation since early November because the court won't do anything about it!.

The trial is set to take 3 days!! Lisa @ Cordell and Cordell, has informed us that will cost 10k and it must be in the retainer BEFORE trial! We have depo's scheduled for Friday? Does Lisa have to come?!? At this point I am almost hysterical. I have even written my Congressman and Senators.. LOL!! As if there is anything they can do. The child refused the visitation. The mom showed up with her. BUT made sure she was asked if she wanted to see her dad by the staff everytime (we have that documented too).

Its just crazy... I just don't know what to do.

Here is some icing for this "crap cake".... Cordell and Cordell informed us that our retainer is gone and they need 10K before trial in 2 weeks!!! Any sugestions on how to proceed Pro se?!?!!

Our trial date is 2/15/2012. But we do not have the money to pay the specialist to testify so we have hope the judge does the right thing. The judge ordered Supervised visitation ONLY cause they had not seen each other for about 8 months at the time. Since the child refussed the first visit, the judge has done NOTHING to rectify the situation.

I am writing anyone and everyone I can who is an advocate for Alienated Fathers. My future, JT has been alienated from his daughter, MT. Dr. J. Michael Bone and Dr. Robert Evans are working on our case with Cordell and Cordell in Tampa FL. James has not seen his daughter in almost 2 years. We have all the evidence we need. Even a social investigation that states that this is a clear case of alienation. We are over 30 thousand dollars in to this custody battle that should come to some conclusion in February, as that is when the trial is set. We are financially exhausted. We have nothing left. Our retirements are empty. We have borrowed THOUSANDS from our parents. I am having a hard time understanding why, when we have a court ordered Social Investigation that states the child is basically being mentally abused by her mother who does not have the means to care for her (She has not had a job in 10 years, supported herself on frivolous lawsuits) , that we are having to PAY someone to protect her!!

He had been out of the house since January 2010, she would not let him "take" her EVER. So he did have a few visits in the mothers home between 1/2010 and 6/2010. After 4 months of repeated attempts to see his daughter he filed for divorce in the hopes of getting a court order.

JT filed for divorce in 10/2010, She filed a restraining order with 36 hand written pages of allegations, we were told that it would be handled in family court as part of the divorce proceedings. JT was even accused of violating it once. We received the social investigation which clearly paints the picture of a mentally ill woman so she did not attempt to extend the injunction...cause A YEAR LATER he is still not divorced nor has he seen his daughter. The judge ordered Supervised visitations almost a year AFTER the last time he had seen MT, and they let her refuse. I don't understand how CPS came to our house and questioned James about something the mother reported 2 years after it supposedly happened, but we have a report that says she her mother is brainwashing her and CPS isn't involved at all?!!?!!?!!? 

Are there any charities, organizations, dads groups or anything that could help us with our financial burdens... We do not know where we will get the money to continue and we fear that MT will never have a chance to be "normal" if we don't intercede and yet, it all comes down to the almighty dollar... 

Hopeless
CC
FL



I also want to add that all investigations, the CPS case and the "Violation of the Injunction" were thrown out. James has been cleared of ALL wrongdoing. He has taken all mental evaluations requested and even drug tests...all passed with flying colors.... BUT due to the "brain washing" his daughter is refusing....so we are waiting on the courts to do something about it.

find someone who specializes in "Parental Alenation" Get them on your team ASAP... I wish we had realized what was happening sooner, we may have been able to avoid so much heart break, avoided so many court apperances which equal $$$'s but mostly....we MAY have been able to protect "the child" better..

In FL we have Dr. J Micheal Bone and Dr Robert Evans.


Best of Luck!!

I also want to add that all investigations, the CPS case and the "Violation of the Injunction" were thrown out. James has been cleared of ALL wrong doing. He has taken all mental evaluations requested and even drug tests...all passed with flying colors.... BUT due to the "brain washing" his daughter is refusing....so we are waiting on the courts to do something about it.