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#21
Case is in CA.  Our daughter was diagnosed to have mild autism.  That's why he filed for SSDI.  Isn't it that CSSD will be triggered to get him when his SSDI claims starts flowing?  I mean his case from his 2 previous child for child support.  Not from me as child support.  I still strongly believe that either I will get more time with her or 50/50 when we go back to court.  With the declarations I got from other parents who witnessed child abuse including the neglectful actions he  had committed to our daughter, I wish the judge will see the truth and pattern of his behavior and parasitic lifestyle. 

At the same time, i have doubts because of his manipulation and exploitation of the system.  He refuses to register his so called child care business, refuses to seek work and receives welfare.  He lives with his ex whom they have a child together who is now 18 but still living with them.  He was able to get away from a lot of things for a very long time. 

Another question, what are the grounds for a driver's license to be suspended when it comes to non payment of child support?  How come there is no action done against him for non payment of his back child support?  He had his DL suspended once but was reinstated. 
#22
Here's my case.  We have joint legal custody, I have her the whole summer and he has her during school days while I get her every other weekend from Friday evening to Monday AM.  Now during our court hearing in April, he was able to lie a lot.  That time, we both didn't have lawyers.  So the judge favored him for not transferring our daughter who has mild autism to my area.  He babysits for a living, refuses to find a full time job, owes child support of $50,000 from other kids.  He has 6 kids from 6 different mothers.  He now then filed for child support, pending at this time, by which I hired a lawyer.  and lately, HE FILED FOR SSDI AND MEDI-CAL for our daughter.  My lawyer wrote him a letter that I will be forced to do judicial intervention but he never listened.  In his  mind, he does believe he has sole legal custody.  BTW, HE IS A SOCIOPATH. 

With what he applied for SSDI and medi-cal, lying about the other parent's existence(that's me), what are the consequences of his actions?  Anyone who has he same experience as mine?  When in comes to the benefits he applied for without my consent?  I do have a lawyer but I wanna hear other's experiences. 

THANK U for all your help folks!!