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State is NC.  We have a 20 month old son.  Husband decided he wanted to separate because he is "unhappy".  He doesn't have any intention of trying to reconcile even though I would like to.  Right now he is seeing son 1 a week in the evening for about 1hr, every other Saturday for about 7hrs and every Sunday for about 4hrs.  He has was staying with a friend but now has his own apartment.  I am in the process of selling our house because I can't afford it and once I sell I feel that I will have to move back in to my parents house who live 4.5hrs away.  Husband does not help financially right now and honestly I don't see how he can in the future if he wants to live out on his own. (does not make a lot of money)  No matter what I think 1 of us will have to live with our parents.  I'm just looking for advice on how to go about this and how it is going to affect our son.  I am willing to do every other weekends with his dad plus holidays and to me that is what a judge would probably order as well.