« on: Sep 09, 2004, 04:45:27 pm »
I am in VA.Father has custody. I have standard visitation and once a week call(specific night/time). (To be fair, I say "supposed" because I never got anything, but I'm not saying they werent mailed)
For the last two weeks, ( this makes I believe 7 times total in less than 6 months), I've been unable to contact my son by phone. The line rings busy for hours. I've taken measures to be sure that it isnt a technical error.
I talk to dad tonight, and he claims that I should call on various cell #s until I get them, cell numbers he claims to have sent in "all of my letters, and I have copies and documentation". Well, I have never received any mail from him, and certainly nothing certified. I'd CERTAINLY like to know what is within these letters, because I feel its my right.
I politely told him that if he wants me to call him on any other number, he needs to supply it to me via certified mail, as well as any future mailings.
Soc, I dont want to waste my life away on this, or your time.
1. He is in contempt, but at what point should I file charges?
2. He claims to have sent other letters to me, which I HONESTLY have not recieved but feel the need to know about now, What course of action should I take with this?
3. What is your suggestion(s) for telling him that I want all mail certified, and I will do the same, and valid reasoning?
Thank you kindly soc, please settle my aching heart.