The legislation in Tennessee (HB2666) defining "material change of circumstance" has now been signed into law (effective 5/24/04). It states :
changes in the needs of the child over time
(original MDA was when child was 3 months old, she is now 6 years old; big change)
changes in the parent's living or working condition
(BM has not worked in 2 years, and has just moved in with her Mom; they have no permanent home, and school district has changed)
failure to adhere to the parenting plan
(original MDA allowed me Saturday 10:00 a.m. until Sunday 5:00 p.m., every other week; I have records the last 3 years where I have had daughter 60+% of overnights)
Also, my attorney offered mediation; her attorney said she wants full custody, full support, standard visitation for me; no negotiation.
Now, questions, in your opinion:
1. Do I meet the required "material change of circumstance"?
2. Do I continue asking for full custody, and settle for less if need be?
3. What, in your opinion, would be considered "fair"?
Thanks for your help; I am getting very anxious about this case, and we go to court on Friday, June 4th.
changes in the needs of the child over time
(original MDA was when child was 3 months old, she is now 6 years old; big change)
changes in the parent's living or working condition
(BM has not worked in 2 years, and has just moved in with her Mom; they have no permanent home, and school district has changed)
failure to adhere to the parenting plan
(original MDA allowed me Saturday 10:00 a.m. until Sunday 5:00 p.m., every other week; I have records the last 3 years where I have had daughter 60+% of overnights)
Also, my attorney offered mediation; her attorney said she wants full custody, full support, standard visitation for me; no negotiation.
Now, questions, in your opinion:
1. Do I meet the required "material change of circumstance"?
2. Do I continue asking for full custody, and settle for less if need be?
3. What, in your opinion, would be considered "fair"?
Thanks for your help; I am getting very anxious about this case, and we go to court on Friday, June 4th.