Thanks for the input! Yes, I do believe the custodial mother has some sort of mental disturbance because there is no other explanation for her actions and behavior, especially over so many years. No normal rationale grownup woman would act this way. She seriously needs some help before the son is totally messed up for life. My husband is a quiet, mild mannered person, and tries to avoid confrontation at all costs. He has done nothing mean or vindictive to this woman at all. We believe she is just upset because she has no control over my husband anymore. She moved out of state one month after she found out he was in a relationship with me. Mind you she has never met me. I'm just the "other woman" with a big red target on my forehead. I believe the woman has major insecurity and control issues. Our 1st hearing is 2/14.....and she is already trying to get the date changed to a later date. I'll keep ya posted.