Here I thought that when SS graduated and got married, DH and I were done with this kind of crap. Now my granddaughter is caught in the middle between DS and GD's BM. I've had concerns about her since practically Day 1. A couple months after GD was born, BM had to be hospitalized because she thought she might hurt GD. Just a hospital stay for a week, no follow-up, no other intervention.
It's an incredibly long story, but suffice it to say that on Father's Day, she refused to allow DS to see his daughter. My brother and SIL are involved and they shouldn't be, as BM is playing DH and I against them because my brother has a grudge against DS for something DS did when he was TWELVE. (Convoluted, huh?) Needless to say, the BM threw our whole family under the bus Sat. night. And she's either deleted her FB page or unfriended everyone in connection to DS. DH is absolutely livid, partly because of all the problems he had with SS's BM in the past and partly because GD's BM lied to him once before and he told her that was her only chance. He now says he's through with her.
And we're supposed to have her this weekend....she got a no contact order on DS a year ago and a temp. custody order was included for EOW. And there's a court date next Tuesday because she wants to extend it (even tho she and DS have had NO contact except for a phone conversation regarding GD's ear tube surgery). DH and I facilitate the exchanges. I don't know if that's going to happen tomorrow night, but all I can do is pray. God, how I love that little girl!
MB: I'm keeping this off my FB page.