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Chit Chat / Re: Gun Trader
« on: Jan 12, 2015, 11:22:13 AM »
That's really weird!!!  Waylon, I always assumed that this website was of YOUR design, is it not??  They sure do look awfully familiar!

Father's Issues / Re: a book about our lives
« on: Sep 14, 2014, 10:37:53 PM »
Anyone who's over the age of 30-40 has had batched vaccinations during infancy and childhood, me and my siblings included.  What's happening now is that previous diseases that were kept at bay because of the vaccines are now resurfacing to the point of epidemic in some areas, just because more and more parents are choosing to not do it.  Makes it very dangerous for the very vulnerable in our society.  I've even heard some parents talking about being forced to home-school just to keep their kids out of mainstream school and being exposed.  And many parents cannot afford to do that when they have a two-income household.  JMO and what I've seen and heard.....

Visitation Issues / Re: I'm baaaaack!!!
« on: Aug 29, 2014, 09:27:23 AM »
HI MSME!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Yes, it's been a long time!!! ;D  And no, I haven't forgotten you!

I'm so sorry this cwap has started again.....just when you think you can finally get on with your life, right?  Well, we're still here to help.  Hope everything goes well with your SO and tell Gr8dad hi for me!!!

Father's Issues / Re: ABC News article in FAVOR of fatherhood!
« on: Jun 17, 2014, 09:49:04 AM »
I'm just glad to see that not only is someone talking about the inequities, but that ABC actually carried it.  All week they have been carrying articles on their website in regards to father and, for the first time, it appears to be an unbiased view.  That's refreshing....

Father's Issues / Re: ABC News article in FAVOR of fatherhood!
« on: Jun 11, 2014, 03:01:06 PM »
I know.....and I like the fact that the blogger brought that up as an issue that needs to be changed.   :)

Custody Issues / Re: Help regarding custody.
« on: Mar 27, 2014, 04:10:11 PM »
The next time you see bruises, take them to the ER.   Medical and educational professionals are required by law to report signs of abuse.  I am a vol. EMT and if I see abuse, don't report it, and it comes to light that I saw and did nothing, I can be fined thousands of dollars and lose my certification for life.  They HAVE to report it.  Document, document, document!  Your atty. might have a valid point, but if one child is failing in kindergarten, I don't see much point in waiting.  It's not like she would lose credits or something like that.
You need an objective 3rd party to report the abuse.....that includes the children's teachers and any other professional who is a mandatory reporter who may have contact with them. Please keep pushing...you are the only ones fighting for these girls because they can't fight for themselves.  And heaven forbid something worse would happen.....

Custody Issues / Re: Help regarding custody.
« on: Mar 27, 2014, 08:32:54 AM »
'the girls have come back saying they get hit (you can see bruises) and that they drink alot.. 'ANY time you see the girls with bruises, you immediately take them to an ER to get it documented and ask the ER staff to report it to the authorities.  It seems about the only way you would be able to get the girls back is if you can nail the BM with some offense.  As long as the judge stays true to his word, then this might be the straw that broke the camel's back for her.  Get EVERYTHING documented....the dental appts. (get x-rays and treatment plans), documentation from the school, basically anything that point the finger at her neglect.
If you don't have another court date set, give the documentation to your atty. and ask for an emergency hearing (you may get it anyway just by reporting the bruises) and lay out everything the BM's done or hasn't done.  And pray that the judge keeps his promise...


Custody Issues / Re: Emergency Transfer Of Custody?
« on: Mar 07, 2014, 01:36:13 PM »
Dave, it's very possible that the child KNOWS how ambivalent her father is and the combination of having watched how he treated her mother AND having the feeling that 'no one wants her' (very possible how she's feeling right now) could be the cause of her acting out like this.  I agree with the others...she needs professional help NOW!

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