« on: Sep 27, 2012, 05:26:17 am »
Take a deep breath. Go to the court house and inquire whether they have any pro se clinics to assist people like you. Check the county website; they may have forms on line. This site is pretty good.
Document, document, document. Let him attack you . . . sooner or later he has to prove it. You have negative test results. Inquire with the police department and social services on whether a report of abuse was filed against your child. If not, give him more rope to hang himself.
There is no formula on how to win. Yes, if you want to play dirty, like he is trying to do you have a chance but he will lose in the end.
There are custody factors to consider; take a look at them. I had an attorney until my ex was so vile that I had to terminate my attorney due to costs. I have been pro se for a number of years and destroyed my ex wife and her army of attorneys at the circuit and appellate courts. You can do it pro se if you are prepared and can commit the thime.