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Show posts MenuQuote from: MixedBag on Aug 28, 2009, 05:29:14 AM
IMHO -- if the ORDER says this, then Dad is gonna have to have a "significant change in circumstances" to change what's already been ordered by a judge.
Honestly? Here's what I would do.
What would happen if dad drove to Sacramento and met mom there at the same time the airline would have arrived?
And then what would happen if dad drove back to Sacramento arriving at the same time the airline would have returned you two?
Count your blessings that Mom BRINGS the child 3 hours to the airport....seriously.
EX#3's ex refused to drive their children from Winnemucca to Reno for 3 years -- and it took dad that long to get to court and ASK the court to find her in contempt. Judge refused because the order was not clear. And for 3 LONG years, dad did not get to see or speak to his children.
Back when I first split up with EX#2, my attorney said that I needed to agree to pay EX#2 for his gasoline expenses so that he would agree to take our son to the airport -- 110 miles one way. Otherwise, yes, I'd have to rent a car on his end, go get our son, and return (3 airline tickets as well).
I can understand the frustration of the cost of travel -- believe me, 6 kids and three long distance divorces over the years -- and my son is presently a 12 hour one way drive away from me.
You two need to count your blessings.....