I have not read all the posts here yet, but I did read the original, my gut is kinda between a rock and a hard place on this. Because we have kinda faced a similar sitation. My
DH and his ex used to be in mediaiton and the mediator stated that all kids lie for attention and is escalated in a highly contested divorce situation in that the kid can not get his way with one parent he plays the sympathy card, now I am not saying this is your case, but what I am saying is that could it be that the child is exaggerating the situation? being there are no marks and no "proof" that this is happening? My
SS called me one day to come get him from school cause he and his
BM Had a fight and he was afraid to go home. Now had I gone I would be in jail for sure, however, he caused a situation that he was at fault for and his BM was totally in the right for her yelling at him and the punishmnet. I was put in a situation that I could not get him without upsetting his mom and going to jail, nor could I betray him and tell him I felt she was right. My answer, was that he needed to work it out at home and if he had an issue then he had to take it upon himself to get the help he deemed necessary. I am not saying that your child is crying wolf, but I wonder if she is making a mountian out of a molehill and in the process putting other people at risk in many ways.