Just my thoughts here Hon but SCREW HER. Does your hubby need ANYMORE headaches? NO. Contact
child support enforcement in your area. If there is a fee, I highly doubt it's anything much. You see, the Federal government doubles the amount to the states for every dollar they collect in support...and yes, that INCLUDES VOLUNTARY GARNISHMENT (or when ever it goes thru them).
There really isn't anyway to cover his butt unless he sends each payment to her by mail with at least delivery confirmation..even then she can say she didn't get it. Or have her sign a log that she got it. It will most likely be late, she just won't cash it, she'll say he only mailed her an empty envelope, it's not HER signature cause YOU (yeah, gotta get you there stepmom you evil woman) forged her signature...the list goes on. Trust me, I've thought of every single detail. When Mr. KAT went to court for support (when custody changed to his ex) he requested to be voluntarily garnished. The big fat ex thru a FIT. She turned red, got all huff & said "But I don't understand, why, how can he just do that without me saying it's okay"...the judge then got MAD at her. It was funny. Wish I had taped it. Just how STUPID did she think we were?
It would be enough of the games it was me....sorry, I know that's not what you wanted to hear.....just wouldn't want to have you back here in a few months sharing a story like many of us already have on this subject.
KAT