I realize that you're angry angry at your Ex for the neglect and abuse that your son had to endure. He's safe now in your care. Don't continue to punish your Ex for what she's done by using your son as the conduit. Believe me, taking her child away is HUGE punishment. I'm sure her recent run to
CPS is because she's hurt from the recent change in custody and desperately trying to do something about it.
You asked some questions, see inset below:
now she is pestering me for his school info.
---Under
FERPA, unless there's a court order stating that she can't have this info, she's entitled to have this info.
now what exactly does "
sole custody" mean? i have sole custody she has unsupervised parenting time.
---Sole LEGAL means you have the right to make the major decisions in your child's life such as medical, school and religion without consulting the other parent.
i am assuming since i have sole (physical and legal) custody she no longer has a right to school/
medical records.
---ABSOLUTELY WRONG THERE! FERPA allows her the right for access unless you have a court order otherwise.
i wouldnt mind but anyone can see what she is up to here.
and is it also illegal for her to take him to a doctor? (unless it was an emergancy) and then with hold the doctors name and number from me?????
---She can't take him to a doctor without your permission. She can only take him if there's an emergency while he's in her care.
i am thiking of taking this back to court and trying to get her visits supervised.
---Why? What's your reason for the supervised? IMO, the parties need a time out here to heal from the wounds of the recent custody change. When the court gave you custody, why did they let her have unsupervised? Unless something significant has happened, you'd have a hard time asking for supervised after your most recent court order.
i am military so i move around alot. i agreed (not in court or writing) to send him out for x mas and summer breaks but now i can see this not the safest thing for my son
---Again.....why? Because she called CPS and took him to the doctor. They found nothing, case closed. Why add fuel to the fire?