We of course wouldn't bad mouth the mom but I really think, for the therapist to be making these recommendations on how my fiance's daughter should be raised, she needs to know who my fiance' really is. For example, the custody order states that I need to supervise all visits (don't know why. She hadn't ever even talked to me when she put that in the visitation order) So the last time we got to see his daughter, he took her on the 4-wheeler. I of course couldn't sit on the 4 wheeler with him. I was watching him and his daughter from our deck or from inside the house, looking out the window. He stayed on our property (we have 20 acres) or close to it where me and both my parents could always see him. Anyway, his ex emailed him and said that "It came to her attention, that he was not supervised during this visit and that we were both in contempt." She said that she talked to the therapist and the therapist said that in order for us to see his daughter, we should go to a Visitation Center or his ex would also allow us to sit in her home for a period of 4 hours. She said that her therapists agreed that this was the only SAFE alternative. My fiance' has never put his daughter in danger and never would. He has never done anything wrong to this child but his ex has these therapists obviously thinking he is going to hurt his daughter. Now that we're going to go to court over this, I don't want her getting her therapist up there to testify against him without ever meeting him and finding out what is REALLY going on. I have found the therapist and will have my fiance' call her. I hope we can work something out with her. His ex previously had told us that she wanted all of us to meet with the therapist once we moved here, but now his ex won't talk to us. We seem to be hitting all brick walls.