Please keep us in your thoughts...

[SLYarnell]

Tuesday evening, 10/17 my DH was killed in a Motorcycle accident in California.  I cant find the words to express the loss we feel right now.  My SD had just 4 1/2 months living with her dad.  We cherish each and every moment but it is just soooo unfair that this should happen to us this soon after our oh so sweet victory.  He loved her so very much and was so looking forward to being there as she grew up... *sigh*

Choking back tears knowing how much of a shock this will be to those of you who have become so very special to me...

[Droogle]

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[Kent]

Sly,

I am so sorry for your loss.
I don't really know what to say, you and DH and SD have been in my thoughts for so long. You finally had SD and DH together, I know how long and difficult of a fight that was.
I will keep you in my prayers.

Kent

[MixedBag]

Prayers are coming!!!

Keep a close eye on SD -- she's gonna need you now more than ever.

I remember your story....

Last October, we too had a friend killed in a motorcycle accident....so not right.

[MixedBag]

Prayers are coming!!!

Keep a close eye on SD -- she's gonna need you now more than ever.

I remember your story....

Last October, we too had a friend killed in a motorcycle accident....so not right.

[speciallady]

Oh hun, I am just speachless...
email me or pm me here if ya need to talk or anything.
Hugs and prayers

[Davy]

... the words may be difficult at this time.  The heart seeks tranquiity and hope for SD, SLY and all to carry DH's greatness forward....


btw, the long time posters on this site know how special you are to all
of us !!!

[Ref]

Hugs to you and your family

Ref

[hagatha]

Sly,

I am so very sorry for your loss. I know just how hard you guys worked to get SD where she needed to be. I know the bond between you and she will become so strong now as you both need each other to heal.

Prayers,
The Witch

[Kitty C.]

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss, sly.  And I know this is just the start of some rough times for all of you.  DS lost his dad 4 years ago, but well after we'd separated.  Didn't make it any easier on DS and he's still paying the price and is in residential treatment now.

The only thing I can tell you is that there are many here you can reach out to..........we've always been here for you and we always will be.  Don't try to tough it out and keep an eye on SD as well for any help she may need as well.  Kids have a way of hiding it, but it eventually comes out in their behaviors.  Just make sure you take care of yourself as well.  

[catherine]

I don't know you well but have followed your story.  That is horrendous and I can't really think of anything to say..... other than sending you condolences, and telling you to stay strong.  How devastating.

[dancurry]

My prayers have been heavy for the last week and will continue to dominate my life as I feel a great loss in my heart for myself and two very important people to me. SLY and her spouse have been an important part of my life for the last several years and instrumetal in helping me maintain a calm through the most difficult time of my life.

SLY, both you and your SD are wonderful people as was your husband and I am honored to have known all of you. Only God knows our purpose in life while we struggle to discover it for ourselves. I venture to guess, by the quality of your character, your purpose may be a grand one indeed. May God bless you and all those around you that are suffing now.

Dan Curry.

[WhatToDo]

I haven't had the chance to talk to you on here before but you are in my prayers....I am so sorry to hear this...

[dipper]

Just wanted to say that my heart is breaking for you and your sd....I am also so glad that your dh had that victory and the past 4 1/2 months with his child......

[wendl]

Sly you and your family are always in our thoughts.

I am so sorry for your loss, how is SD doing with this all.  She is so lucky to have you now, you are such a strong person.

I know DH cherished every moment he had with her and will always be with both of you.

Hugs to you all.

**These are my opinions, they are not legal advice**

[MYSONSDAD]

This just knocked me off my chair! When I first started my fight, you were already here on the boards, I remember your story well.

My deepest and most heartfelt prayers to you and your family.

[determined]

My prayers are with you.  

[exwiferuinsson]

Sly

I am sooooo sorry to hear this, my deepest sympathy goes out to you and your SD.

My heart goes out to the two of you, my thoughts and prayers are with you.