Separated Parenting Access & Resource Center
crazy gamesriddles and jokesfunny picturesdeath psychic!mad triviafunny & odd!pregnancy testshape testwin custodyrecipes

Author Topic: question - do deadbeat mothers get off easier then men?  (Read 9666 times)


  • Private Reserve
  • SuperHero
  • ***
  • Posts: 7917
  • Karma: 236
    • View Profile
RE: well, I can certainly see why deadmoms wouldn't pay! LOL! nm
« Reply #10 on: Jan 25, 2008, 09:25:18 PM »


  • Private Reserve
  • SuperHero
  • ***
  • Posts: 5775
  • Karma: 342
    • View Profile
Was she behind in August....
« Reply #11 on: Jan 28, 2008, 06:54:44 AM »
that is when the tax intercept letters go out.  The first year my ex was in arrears, it didn't happen until after Aug. so I didn't get his taxes the following spring.  Now I get his wife's, because he works under the table.  It's the only time a year I get any CS.  I'm with you on the tax rebate too.


  • Global Moderator
  • SuperHero
  • *****
  • Posts: 3049
  • Karma: 155
  • That's Me...MixedBag
    • View Profile
    • http://www.doilyboutique.com
RE: I dunno about that...m
« Reply #12 on: Jan 29, 2008, 02:12:34 PM »
my friend who is behind -- jurisidiction is MD.  She says she's about $200 behind....

Makes you wonder.


  • Sr. Member
  • ******
  • Posts: 1470
  • Karma: 0
    • View Profile
RE: I dunno about that...m
« Reply #13 on: Feb 22, 2008, 08:49:56 PM »
I know how you feel, my ex is $21k in arrears, he has been held in contempt AT LEAST 6 times in the past year, 5 bench warrents (once in jail) and yet the prosecutor keeps giving him chances after chances.

GRRRR my sons meds are $155 a month, the cs would really help.  I hate having to ask my DH for help as he pays almost $700 a month for his kids. Luckily cs office was really good when we were under $2k in arrears when we moved (we are now current)

I just don't understand how these mem/woman get so far behind, I can understand a few thousand as life happens that we cannot control sometimes, but come on.

We need to hold these DEADBEAT parents accountable as they make the paying parents get the crap end.

**These are my opinions, they are not legal advice**


Copyright © SPARC - A Parenting Advocacy Group
Use of this website does not constitute a client/attorney relationship and this site does not provide legal advice.
If you need legal assistance for divorce, child custody, or child support issues, seek advice from a divorce lawyer.