-----My daughter was almost in tears the other night during my visitation. As my three yr old little girl and I was getting ready for bed she would not let me get near her unless she had jeans on and I had jeans on.-----
Ok, I don't think I'm "getting" it. Are you mad because she's sensitive about her private parts? If ya ask me...that's a GREAT thing, considering how young these kids get "active".
Anyway, if that's your concern...her being "shy", and her mother putting it into her head...well check this out. My daughter was a nudist for YEARS. She didn't care who or what was staring at her...she wanted to be naked! I called her my "streaker" as I've caught her removing her clothes in busy stores, and when she learned how to unlock the door at our old place? I had to put a gate up on the inside keeping her away...because she'd strip down to her birthday suit and rush downstairs. I'd have neighbors in stitches watching me chase this little naked thing around the parking lot.
Well, about a year ago (maybe a tad bit longer) she started getting weird. If my hub was in the house while she's naked...she'd have a stroke. (i shit you not, if she's getting dressed in her room and hears hub come in the front door? my gawd...she'd start screaming) I'm convinced I have perforated ear drums because of the screeching sound that came out of her mouth whenever he'd accidentally walk into the bathroom while she's on the potty or in the tub. This was an all of a sudden thing...remember, this kid used to get naked in public.
A week or two ago, she started getting all weirded out with me, too. She's so weird, that when her shower is done...I have to close my eyes to turn off the faucets. One day last week, I just couldn't find them...so I "peeked"...ripped my eardrums WIDE open with that gawd awful noise.
Girls get weird about their privates. Ya can't explain this...anymore than you can explain many of the weird things little girls do. I guess you should be thankful they're so weirded out...after all...one day they won't be.