Today's events-
BM picks children up from our house, her weekend. My fiance checks the children's heads before they go back to Mom (supposedly mom found/treated lice this Monday)- does find nits (eggs) in oldest daughter only- oldest daughter was away at camp approx two weeks ago and treated for lice on Monday by BM- We keep the children away from the conversation (inside our place) and Dad explains to BM the possibility that lice (in this case) is not coming from either home- it happened at camp. She acknowledges she let her bf interfere and get her all upset about it, and had she thought it through, she would of come to a different conclusion. Based on this discussion, Dad requested to have day that was taken away from him (she called and said she was taking away a day because of the lice, this would also end the 50/50 split, and understand under the current CO, she has primary custody). She seemed to agree to it, but we won't know for sure until that day actually happens.
She was a totally different person today- but I have to say, I just don't trust her. My fiance and I agree that he should still file for modification of the current CO, 'cause she has just now shown to us, on a whim, she will makes changes what has been verbally agreed upon because she can.
Here is where my confusion comes in, we also wanted to file contempt charges against her, for several issues. I know it sounds like we are being vindictive, but we have tried communicating with her, and I am tired of her Dr. Jeykll/Mr. Hyde personality. She has not been honoring the
right of first refusal for almost a year now, her actions for the past year have poisioned the minds of her children against their father, and she has her b/f communicating with my fiance instead of speaking to him directly. We don't know whether we want to follow through with the contempt petition or not. I'm afraid if we don't, her actions will continue and now we are allowing her to walk all over us.
I know this is just a small bit of information, but if you are able to review my other posts, you will see what we have been experiencing for the past two to three weeks. Any thoughts/suggestions?