In our current order, it states that:
If an illness prevents care of child, and proper child care approved by both parties cannot be obtained, Mother will notify Father so that he and Grandparents may take custody during this time.
The mother just got out of hospital yesterday after being in for 8 days for pancreatitis. She felt 'better' within hours of our scheduled court appearance. Father notified her on Sunday that as this illness has her in extreme pain and on pain meds, he wanted a note from the doctor stating she was able to take care of child upon her release. She did not reply. Yesterday, around 5 she started texting that she was getting out and wanted us to meet her mother in a short period of time which was not doable for us. I relayed that message to her and asked for doctor's note. She later texted that she will be meeting us to pick up child today at 6 p.m. Again, asked for doctor's note. She not only will not reply at all to the request, she has not stated who will be taking care of child. We know she is unable to do so on her own. She lives with her mother, but she started a new job this week and no one has said the mother will be helping her.
If we take child this evening to the mother, can we file a show cause against her for refusing us the right to take care of her as in order?
Also, she refuses to give us name of her mother's live-in boyfriend. Can a judge compel her to give us that little bit of information?