I know activities will occur as she gets older, but I feel this is just to interfere as there is no rush - she is only 2. Also, in order for us to take her to a 45 minute dance class would require a 2 hour round trip and that is a lot on a child her age. There is nothing in the order about who pays fees.
Mother has filed a show cause against which was received today saying we denied her
medical records and honest communication. I have phone recordings and texts showing I notified her when child was sick - and I cannot deny her medical access to records. I don't have that authority.
She also filed saying I refused to return child - she is referring to when she got out of hospital. I never told the grandmother I would not return child, though I was frustrated with their games and short notice; I took the sick child to the exchange location and have proof of this.
She also said we distract child during her phone calls.....the child plays. We try to not say a word during those conversations but the mother always keeps asking to speak to us. When we call child, the mother talks the entire time and refuses to allow child to hold phone. We have numerous calls recorded to prove this.
I feel it is more a tit-for-tat thing as in...we will have proof against them but they are coming in making accusations to try to make it look like we have disobeyed order as well. We have not....seriously, I go by the order.
