Tigger - we meet halfway, so the driving is really on both of us. The mother seems to want the child back so she can go sledding with her, she is very excited about this. However, I feel we would be just as much in the right to keep child until driving conditions are safe. That is why I am hoping we can work out make-up time and give her the child as she wants.
Mixedbag - we already give the mother make-up time each month. That was part of our agreement. I understand what you are saying and I am hoping we can work out something where it can be our standard agreement, though they have tried to back out of every agreement made so far. I expect no different this time, but just want it in writing. I am thinking if they have child and a storm is coming...we will just lose time. But, we can hope if we oblige this time, they will work with us next time.