My son is 7 years old and he has been raised solely by me .His father has ONLY visitation on Sundays that he never served. As we finish the 7th year, he started contact again but it is more annoying that beneficial. I mean how can he actually build a bond with the type of communication he establishes?
What do I call annoying?
sending me an email that does not address my son at all. Here is his message:
"Merry Christmas. Hope u have a good day".
Also, on Saturday he sent mean email asking me to pick up a toy for my son at a Target near me.I am trying to be nice so I said "I don't mind picking it up but it might be better if I save it and you give it to him when you see ". He responded and he said he was going to let me know. I told him to let me know before 11 pm on Dec 24 as I was going to put all presents by the tree. He never did.
He only lives 58 miles away and yes, I don't expect me to make a complete change but what he is doing is not that positive either
any thoughts into this ?
I don't want to close the door but ...