I've heard that even if you cut its head off, its body will live for several WEEKS before it dies. That is exactly what I am dealing with here with my children's SM!
Ordinarily I have no problems ignoring SM when she acts up, but I must have PMS or something and I want her to suffer, be jailed, be audited from the IRS, get the bird flu, mad cow....for the love of God something!!!!!!
For the past 2 years I have kept a print out of every email she has ever sent me and I have managed to fill...yes fill, a 3-ring binder. I have ignored email for the past 2 years, had it blocked, changed my email address, etc... she keeps on a coming. Not only is she emailing me, she is emailing me at work. Not only is she emailing me at work, she is making serious allegations against my husband on my work email, he works for a very big bank and is accusing him of tampering with funds, their accounts etc..none of which he has any access to but if she called and made her threats fruitful, he would be let go most certainly. To add further fuel to the fire, every time I block her email she opens up a new hotmail or yahoo account so she can get through.
The icing on the cake is she signs BF's name to them. Sometimes she puts both of them down but mainly she signs his name. BF does not email me, we both wouldn't piss on eachother if we were on fire so I am fairly confident it is not him. If he needs to speak to me he calls.
I haven't written her back once..well sometimes I do the bounce back "you have been blocked" email or if "she" asks a question over and over and over I reply, at my lawyers instruction I will not be conversing with you via email, but it doesn't matter, she just opens another one.
Anyone have any idea what I can do? I would love a TRO but that will open up a whole new can of worms and except for the emails, BF has left us and the kids alone....which is better for everyone all around. For those of you that don't know my story, SM is severely
bi-polar and that is just the tip of the 4 year bag of fun we have had. BF chooses his wife over his children and believe me, they would rather it be that way then be around her.
I have had it, I am sick to death of getting these emails at work...if they ever opened and read them I would be embarrassed. She ahs called my work before and spoke to my HR department about me harrassing them from work before. But they checked it out before they pulled me aside and found nothing on my phone (recorded) and nothing in my email "sent" box that demonstrated any harrassment via my work environment. Well now she is on to my husband because she couldn't get anywhere with me.
I am going to freak out soon....anyone have some words of wisdom?