This year was Psycho-mom's year for visitation during fall break. Technically, it didn't start till Thursday morning but hubby agreed to her getting them yesterday, at 7 a.m., 2 days early. If any of you remember, PBFH's husband is NOT allowed around the children UNLESS another adult is present other than PBFH. So, Psycho mom calls at 6:30 a.m. She is by herself, a 10 hour drive from KY to VA and she isn't "comfortable" coming to the house to pick the children up alone. Okay, we don't buy for a minute that she IS by herself but we agree to meet her at a store close to the hotel where she is staying. Before we leave, I called the hotel, asked for **** *****'s room, no answer, asked the clerk how many people checked in, he said 2. So we meet Psycho-mom. Hubby asks her who is with her, she repeats constantly "I'm by myself". Hubby told her he knows that she is lying. So, the children get in her car, we say our goodbyes and we leave before she does, going straight to her hotel. I get out, to go in the office and ask what room is *** **** in and who do you think is waiting outside, sitting on a bench waiting for PBFH???!!! HER HUSBAND!!!! So, I go into the office, call 911. Explain that PBFH is in contempt of custody order, explain about her husband, etc..... In the meantime, here she comes, slammed on the breaks wehn she saw our car...... WE GET OUT, SHE GETS OUT, THE CHILDREN STAY IN HER CAR. It is literally 25 degrees outside. Her husband asks what isd going on.... he says she told him that it was okay for him to be around the kids.... she admits she lied because she thought hubby wouldn't let the kids go with her if he knew ****was with her...... she asks her husband to take a bus... he says no absolutely NOT. She says she will buy bus tickets for her and the children.... he says "where are you gonna stay when youget to KY?" so that didn't work. the police come, we all talk separately, then hubby tells her the only way he will let the kids go is if he sees him get on a bus himself. HE REFUSED. The police told her she was in direct violation of the custody order and hubby DID NOT have to let the kids go with her. In the end......she drove 10 hours for NOTHING. HUBBY DID NOT LET HER HAVE THE CHILDREN FOR THIS VISIT. Every word out of PBFH's mouth is a lie.. During her summer visit, the children were ALWAYS left in this man's care, UNSUPERVISED. Then they were told NOT TO TELL ANYBODY or they would be in trouble. We have had it with PBFH! Let's just hope that for her Christmas visit, she will do the right thing.