I am a new father. My ex and I have had plenty of contact and always said we would put the child first. However, 2 months ago she changed her cell number and I did not speak to her until He was born. I did stay in constant contact with her family. On the day he was born she refused to let me in the room to see him and only gave in at her mothers urging. The reason for her acting the way she has is her boyfriend. Whom she has had a on/off relationship with for 3 years. I am listed as the father on the b.c., my question is, is it necessary to attain a lawyer. I would rather keep the courts out, but I do fear he is going to make it very difficult to see my son. On the flip side I do not want to start in the courts and they break up, like I said she is not the problem. Any advice would greatly be appreciated.