No, he doesn't have a bank account.
No, he doesn't own a car (he doesn't even have a driver's license).
No, he doesn't own a house (nor is he on any lease).
He has no bills. He lives off of other people (his mother, his girlfriends, etc).
No, I don't know where he's working when he works "under the table".
Yes, $37,000 is a large sum of money, but in NJ they don't like to arrest him and put him in jail anymore (*they used to). What they do now is they arrest him and have him go before the judge the same day. The Judge orders him to come up with two weeks payment within 10 days. My ex agrees and they let him go. My ex ignores the
court order and doesn't come up with the money within 10 days and nothing is done to him! I call ALL the time and they just keep telling me that they are doing everything that they can. I also write letters to my local politicians and they look into the problem and finally send me a letter telling me that the CS office is doing everything that they can.
By the way, he must NOW be working on the books, because I just received two CS payments from his employer. Both payments weren't full payments, but at least it's something. Unfortunately whenever this has happened in the past, he usually gets fired soon after they start taking the CS out of his check because he starts "not showing up" for work. He hates when they take CS out of his check.
He's a loser, but the state of NJ isn't helping by letting him get away with not supporting his children!
Your sister's
DH is a good father because he supports his children, but the state tends to come down on those type of NCPs. The CS office in our area has been telling me for over 16 years now that you "can't get blood from a stone", but that SAME CS office used to call my former boss and harrass him about his CS payments. My former boss made
HUGE CS payments that were garnished from his paycheck each week. He spent alot of time with his children and paid ALL of their medical bills because his ex didn't work. He paid SO much CS that he couldn't even afford an apartment for himself, so he got a part-time job working on a farm nights and weekends in order to get free room and board. The man made a 6-figure income, yet he couldn't even afford to have his own place because that SAME CS office went after him!!!!
Like I said before NJ STINKS!!!!