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Court order was entered in Az, Mother lives in Fl and father lives in PA. WE have split custody. Court order states in regards to medical
"expenses not covered by health insurance for the children will be paid 75% by petitioner and 25% by respondent" I am the petitioner in this court order.

1.If the child is under steparent insurance, can you still ask the NCP for their share of the expense?

2. Can it still be used to calculate support if i was to ask for modification?

3. How complicated would it get if i was to request a modification considering that neither one lives in AZ?

4. As stated in the CO, does that include premiums, copay and medical prescriptions?

THe biggest problem i am seeing right know is DENTAL, mother send me an estimate of work that was to be done to my daughter, the job was over $1200. I told mother to send me a completed bill showing what she paid and what the insurance paid. Which is the same way i send her bill when i need reimbursement. Apparently she has taking daughter 2x to the dentist and out of pocket she's had to pay over $400 each time. I can't believe that we try so hard to get good insurance for my kids and always very attentive to their "preventive care" yet the $$$ i save with the ones that live with me, i have to spend with the one that lives with Mother. My daughter is only 8 and there's always been something wrong with her teeth. At this point i am just a bit frustrated. Mother was shocked when i told her she had to pay 25% for the daughter that lives with me. Apparantely she thinks i have to pay for everything for the one that lives here  and 75% for the one  that lives with her, Great way of interpreting Court Order!!!

Thanks

Over the past 4 years i have noticed that when daughter is with CP she always wets the bed. When she comes down to see us she never does it.
She 9 years old and she;s told me herself that in CP house she wears a diaper at night b/c she pees in bed. She's been with for different spans of time from 1-6 weeks, and this has never been a problem. ICP parent never mentioned anything until we went to her hometown. She asked us if daughter wet the bed while she was with us, we told her no. She said its a constant issue with her that she's had buy new matresses a few times.
 think this is odd, if she had a bed wetting problem , wouldnt she do it everywhere???

8 year old Daughter is here for 1/2 the summer. Her older sister showed me a note she had written during her ride in the airplane. it was  a letter to a boy stating she loved him so much that we she wants to marry him so she can have sex with him!!!!!!

I think shes too young to be speaking that way

Am i overrecting??? Should i say something to her mother about it?