just so you know a separation agreement can be drawn up and agreed upon by both you and your ex BUT for any reason at all she decides to change it she will be able to. It's all being held with a grain of salt. we had this happen to us. my hubby's ex had her lawyer draw up a sep. agreement and it stated that neither party could move away from home town further than 200 miles. She thought this would prevent my hubby from moving to FL where he is from... Well he had no intentions on doing that immediately anyway. So when the time came and she wanted to move she got a lawyer and took it to court. Paying as much as he does in child support every month made it impossible for him to get a lawyer for himself. So here we are with no lawyer and the judge saying she can move the kids 8 1/2 hrs away from here. Def. more than 200 miles!!!! So basically the judge told us that the separation agreement wasn't worth the paper it was written on...... be wary of anything like that and if possible get it incorporated into your divorce decree so then it becomes a court order not just words on a peice of paper