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Custody Issues / Help
Mar 10, 2011, 06:17:16 AM
Hello, I live in Washington state. I have two kids with my ex-husband. We have joint custody. Both my kids live with their dad. I have been bullied by him and his wife for 8 years. He is a truck driver so the kids stay with her most of the time. I get visits with them every 2nd and 4th weekend. I never miss a visit and my child support is paid. Yesterday my ex told me that my daughter doesn't like coming over to house anymore ( she is almost 13) the reason they give is she feels like i dont love her anymore. He told me everytime she comes from my house she crys for hours. He asked me if i would give up my parental rights so that his wife can step adopt my kids. I said no way so he said he going to fight me in court about getting my rights taken away. The thing i dont understand is she and I talk, laugh, watch movies together. She seems very happy when she leaves my house. My sons loves coming to mommy's house. When i have extra money i take them places. They make alot more money then me they have a lawyer. I havent recieved any papers yet. What should I do? I also found out the step mom took me off the emergency contact list at my kids school. She is always telling what to do. I am suppose to follow his rules he makes in his house at my house. It feels like we are still married even though we have been divorced for almost 9 years. I have finally grown a backbone and i am standing up to them both please help with any advice. Thank you.