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Hey guys and thanx for the resonses!!!  I did try to tell her, but she tried telling me that she had stopped all contact with him on Tuesday.  I found out that she is still talking to him.  

I did give my attorney the info on him, but haven't heard from him yet.  We are supposed to have a court date on Tuesday about custody too.  My attorney sent her a summons to respond to the mediation, but I don't think she turned anything in.  Again, I have to wait till I talk to my Attorney.

That last response to me sounded just like the guy.  He claims he's all religious, changed, and not going to be like that again.  It would kill me if that happens to me.  Not to mention possibly kill my children.  Does that person live in N. California by chance??  Hopefully not!

Since you responded with great info, I'll keep you informed.  And I did get a good attorney!

My current wife started dated this guy, who also has gone through a divorce, while we were living together.  Go figure that we are going through a divorce now.  We have temp custody orders until mediation.  My question is:  I found out that he has been arrested in 2000 for Domestic Violence including having a firearm, and now he has a restraining order against him by his ex.  Their visitation involves a third party to be present when he has his boy.  I'm becoming afraid for my children because of my (soon to be) ex's insecurities, and that he is playing the nice guy routine to get what he wants.  I can't say that I'm ticked for what she did, I'm wanting to know if he poses a threat and can I have a restraining order against him being around my children??