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 This being your question>
My question is knowing the head games and alienation factors how do I prepare fo a August meeting to discusss the future of My son and I with the mom who is basically being a bully in the position of power?

 This being my answer>
 Why bother to prepare........Prepare for what? More heartache?...more loosing?....more wishing that don't come true?.....more sleepless nights?.......more attorny fees,,,,,,,wait a sec. I got it!    You should prepare for more  ALIENATION  !!

              Sorry no help here!!.............

The other day I decided to take the day off work & drive the 100 miles to my daughter school. This being her 12th birthday. Waiting in the school office nervously, 20 min. had passed & she still hasn't come into the office. The VP informed me that she would go & get her. 10 more min. & still no daughter. Finally the door swings open & the VP was alone. She looked at with concern & asked me into her office. She said " Sorry, but your daughter doesn't wish to see you". This is when I felt like my heart dropped further down than it ever has in my life. After some small talk,,,I took a couple of deep breaths and asked her if she could make sure my daughter received this. This being, a rolling backpack full of presents, money, cards etc. from my side of the family. She said she would. I left,,,,,,,,Alienation COMPLETE..........
First it was the mom not wanting me to be w/her.
Second, the Family Court System.
and now third,,,,,My Daughter doesn't want to see me.
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                           I
                             GIVE
                                    UP !!

Been there done that!......I've given up 2!!!!!!!!,,,,,,I guess i'll just wait tell she gets older,,,,and pray things well change.    Good Luck  < like that well help!....

Been there done that!......I've given up 2!!!!!!!!,,,,,,I guess i'll just wait tell she gets older,,,,and pray things well change.    Good Luck  < like that well help!....

Been there done that!......I've given up 2!!!!!!!!,,,,,,I guess i'll just wait tell she gets older,,,,and pray things well change.    Good Luck  < like that well help!....

Been there done that!......I've given up 2!!!!!!!!,,,,,,I guess i'll just wait tell she gets older,,,,and pray things well change.    Good Luck  < like that well help!....

Been there done that!......I've given up 2!!!!!!!!,,,,,,I guess i'll just wait tell she gets older,,,,and pray things well change.    Good Luck  < like that well help!....