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I am writing this for my fiance.He has joint custody of their 3 children ages 13,10 and 7 and the children live with us cause she gave up the fight and let him have them during the trial (long story)...it says in the custody papers that she MUST have a home phone and proper bedding for the children and she doesn't.She is supposed to get the children one weekend a month cause we live in separate states.Ok,she had the children for 5 weeks last summer then lost her apartment and brought them back on fathers day,since then she has only seen the children on New Years weekend and on Easter sunday of this year.She only calls once a month cause she has no phone and claims a pay phone charges to much.BF did not let the children go with her this summer cause she and her current husband were both unemployed and living with a relative,plus they was in a 2bdrm home with 6 people..this upset the ex and she has been threatening to take him back to court and sue for sole custody for him denying visitation.He keeps telling her it's in the custody papers that she has to have a phone and beds for the kids and she says she doesn't care about the stupid papers that she wants to see her kids.Now.... she is in this habit of DEMANDING us to be home at 7 p.m. saturday nights so she can talk to the kids,she has done this before and never called so we blew it off,well she called and threw a fit,left a nasty message saying we were refusing her phone calls...ok bottom line is,she wants kids for her weekend in August even though she has no home phone,no message phone,we have no idea where she lives,only the town and no beds.BF is worried about being 6 hours away and her not bringing them back(again,long story.she ran with kids for 3 years before he took them from her and got emergency custody,15 schools later and 65 days of missed school)! Any way,we could really use some advice on this one as to if we need to go by the papers or if the judge will think BF is being petty and side with her if she does decide to take him back to court like she threatens every time they talk..any advice would be great...thanks~