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Everything you said here brings opportunities not available before. I must concour in your first assesment, it is "extreme" to the point that I believe why she is doing what she is doing. she is under "the influence" of a "psycho SOB" who went to court with her to show all people in the court building how "idiots" are both, when I have already given in my witten motions to the judge the factual information about their adultery, the phone calls, meetings, recorded her statements about she loving him, describing her confession, the fact that he is intellectually capable of coming up with the "bomb info" and all that crap. I'm just waiting to the judge to hear the results of the evaluations. In the interim, her atty is hanging up my calls (three times this week), so next Monday I  will fill the motion for Cause with a strong period lasted from the last hearing, Nov 14, where the judge ordered and clarified to all, to me and the two harridans (they act alike) that I can visit with the kids providing a person that will supervise the visits. Three days after the hearing I gave her Atty the name of a couple, who have children same ages as mine. I have waited since last week (before Thanksgiving) and she has not move to allow visits. Anyways, I am making a "great effort" to not "react" as you suggest, I surely look to "respond" to the events enfolding.

Thanks for your support!

God Bless!!!

FatherTime,

I thank you for your advice, I will get this information drilled on my head, and is true, I just barely keeping my sanity. I will let you know the county by other means if necessary. I will give you the judge name also. I am waiting for one more week so I can submit a Motion to Show Cause since her lawyer is not following the judge order.

Thank you again for your help!:)

My case is going to make history about divorce in this country (I hope so anyway).

For 10 years I was married to a very sweet woman, we have two children. I help her as my wife and best friend to get educated. But, once she got a master degree in engineering, this past February she got a job, after six months we were looking for work. Once she started to make money, after 55 days, she came asking for divorce, to let her go and confessed that she was in love with her immediate team lead coworker, that he was her spiritual master, her twin flame and that she had sex with him at the office. (Tell me about their ethics and decorum)

Shocking as it is, she didn't finished there. After her confession, I had to tell her that she should leave us (me and the kids) since she wanted to keep seeing that guy. She got vindictive and with his friends and supervisor at her work, she set me up in an entrapment, nine days after her confession, press charges for rape and assault (never happened, later the charges were dropped) got to make me arrested like a criminal (saying to police that I was armed, dangerous and crazy) and then, seeded false evidence about me being a terrorist in my house (I was interrogated by the Feds while incarcerated about conspiracy of terrorism). Not finished yet, she have alienated my children, telling them not to call me dad anymore9teh few occasions I saw them for few minutes) took possession of all my stuff (I was able to get off only with my clothes and the garage junk after came out of jail) and has been accusing me of stalking, harassing her and doesn't let me see the kids (since April 2006). Since she moved in August to an undisclosed location, with the help of her attorney, (and I suspect help from the police and the court) I don't know nothing about the kids, where they are how they are doing, what school they go, etc. they totally removed me from their lives.

Sadly, she became a harridan after been a wonderful person and loving wife, with the influence of her lover. A friend of mine called me to tell me that he saw them the last day of September with my kids attending a karate tournament, he was driving her SUV and I assume they are living together, still we have not get the divorce.

I just need to everybody know this injustice, I also need to know what are my rights now (besides getting an attorney, but I can't afford one yet)

Last October 12th she set me up with a 51b restraining order, lying that I hit her face with a booklet. I never touched her, it was my daughter who hit her face with a little booklet while they were in her SUV, and I was outside asking them to come inside a restaurant for supper. She got piss and looks at me and said: I'm going to tell them that you hit me! And the judge believes her lies! But he did not gave her temporary custody(what she was looking for to get), instead let my case for custody going to the other case and that is when I got assurance that I can see the kids in supervised visits. Since the judge gave me supervised visits since October, her attorney has not done anything to comply with the court order to see my children. One thing here, that day, both went to court expecting to make me upset and then get over with their entrapment plan. I ignore them, even when the guy incites me to argue with them. I kept my cool, but inside I felt the most humiliating feeling a man can get from people. You judge this!

This woman is crazy and she was ordered psychological evaluation and I have to go also( I don't mean doing it) She had use all the tricks of the book, fake statements of domestic violence, lie to police, lie in court, lie to the judge, to all our friends, lie to college professors about me and the reason of our separation, she had threaten me to kill me if I go after "them", if I defend myself and prove their conspiracy(she is a black belt in karate and Korean sword).

Since she makes big salary, she uses the money to pay this attorney and that woman dance for her...I'm still at college (living with loans and family support) and now she is asking me for child support. I can't afford the lawyer yet so I'm pro se in my case for custody, I was parent at home while she finished her masters (three years), I lost my career as IT professional, to help her finish higher education. Now she pays me with this infamy.

I just want to see my kids and hopefully seek that justice will be served and get this sweet talker who destroyed her consciousness and our relationship to be accountable for what he has done to our kids and both of us.

I ask for you to be the judge or the jury!

PD: I went to talk to the assistant DA and she said that while in NC adultery is a misdemeanor by the State statutes, they are not prosecuting it anymore...so there you go...Law is relative to choice and statutes are choose to be prosecuted at their wish not by the Spirit of the Law but by convenience of the enforcers. Justice is dying!