OK so I am back with some new information. We had our initial status conference today. She wants Child Support now as well as Primary Parental Custody. Exactly what I filed for. She had her lawyer try and put in a temporary order today for Child Support. I countered that by saying "wait wait wait, I've been the majority parent (overwhelmingly) for 3 years now. If anything, i'm due back-child support". I have some pretty decent documentation going back to about a year after my son was born. They decided that they want to hire a Family Investigator to monitor the child when he is at both parties houses. They decide this before I am even given the opportunity to show documentation that I have that logs just how little time she spent with her son in the past. Will I be given the opportunity to prove that or am I now at the mercy of the Investigator? We have court date for March 23rd to get orders in for Child Support which in my eyes, I believe I am entitled to. I mean when a mom abandons her kid for weeks, even as much as a month at a time, that's got to count for something right?
Also, in what I believe is a attempt to gain favor, she put my son in a pre-school today. Which I don't know how well that will work considering that we exchange Isaac every four days so he is not with one parent, the same days, each week. Do I look bad for not enrolling him first? I asked my lawyer and he said it doesn't matter. But I don't know that I agree with him on that one.
Also, in what I believe is a attempt to gain favor, she put my son in a pre-school today. Which I don't know how well that will work considering that we exchange Isaac every four days so he is not with one parent, the same days, each week. Do I look bad for not enrolling him first? I asked my lawyer and he said it doesn't matter. But I don't know that I agree with him on that one.