Long story short ..My ex disapeared for 4 years telling me my daughter was not mine ..She told me this after she started seeing a guy who was very controlling and told her she wasnt allowed to talk to me ..Now that they have got a divorce the ex has come knocking on my door telling me sh eis mine..I want something in writing and a paternity test .As of now she sends my kid to her ex husbands every other weekend and i see her every weekend her mother is suppose to have her....I could never type the whole story it would take me forever but if someone has a first step for me to take in getting a paternity test and starting some visitation that would be great