Since January my wife and I are getting a divorce. WE had both agreed that any time I wanted the kids I could get them. Everything has been fine and bot of us agreed that we wanted to stay out of court as much as possible and setup our own child support. Though we have not come close to any sort of agreement I would give her money here and there for the kids. Now fed up without being able to agree on a set amount I told her until then I am not going to give her anything because its just getting to the point where I want to move on and I need a $$ amount so I can work it in my budget. Now all of a sudden she won't let me see my kids or talk to them on the phone. What should I do??? We never went to court for any type of visitations or custody like that .. Can I go pick them up at school then tell her I have them or is it against the law?? I live in New York State and any help would be great. Thanks
Jeff
Jeff