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  The Current System is similar to welfare and why wouldn't you get free money if you could and even feel entitled to it. There is too much emphasis placed on that mandatory 17% particularly if you have a lazy or incompetent support magistrate. Petitions are good but is there any unified movement and where to send them to. Are there any alternative plans being proposed by social thinktanks. i am a noob and have alot of questions but it starts somewhere . Things have got to change.

    Thanks for your reply. I have evidence photos of my son with his sisters at birthdays, family functions, in the house etc... he has clothes, toys, drawings here.. Sworn affadavits from my wife, mother, sister also there was a petition for an order of protection that she filed, which wasn't granted where she states in regard to why no arrests were made is that there was no legal custody. Also she did not dispute my claims in court (she had a court appointed attorney present i self represented) exept o say that he did not spend every weekend with me. I will try to find a good attorney who will work with my now broke behind.... any further evidence i haven't thought of???

 Thanks for your response and it is has crossed my mind...  I don't want to be the one to report her but I feel like if that's what it takes to stop this woman then I'll do it. I feel betrayed by a system that gives someone so much power. I've been doing right and I'M  treated like a second class citizen. I WORK SO HARD just for my kids to have  a future. Any help with resources in New York City I'd appreciate. I will consult with a lawyer soon .. Do I really need one to represent me in court though .. I was wondering If I could sit down go over the facts and scenarios ..c ome up with a strategy .. I'm fairly intelligent and can present my argument well.. why I'm asking is not that I don't want to be represented but I need to be frugal.. my wife is a homemaker and we just bought a new home.. and now I need to come up with 700 a month in support.. what if I only pay half of that .. I might be able to pay an attorney..  what are the repercussions..

     Hi, I've been Dealing with my son's mother(never married)  for four years now and until recently it was amicable. Now she is the return of the blair witch. this is really scary. My son used to spend at least half the week with us but since september he started going to school,I wasn't told where, and now he only spends part of saturday to sunday evening. I suggested a pastor mediate this but now i've been taken to court for child support and have to start paying $700 a month even though i have two children with my wife in addition they are all young and my wife doesn't wife in order to take care of all three of them .I now have temporary visitation 3 weekends a month. i am ticked off what the heck are my rights. His mother is an undocumented immigrant and admits to the court she is unemployed and is currently lodging with an unsavory character. We are due in court in a month and a half because the custody and child support payment are being contested I filed for joint custody and visitation and received this temporary arrangement. i plan to get professional legal advice but is there anything that i should do like immediately to increase the visitation because i do feel like she took my son from me and im being made to pay for it on top of that.