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Saturday, my wife and had a fight over the phone about her 2-DUI boyfriend telling my girls to call him daddy. We went round and round for 30 to 45 minutes on topics, and we were most definately LOUD with eacht other. We ened up talking an hour and a half, and once off the boyfried, it was amicable. She agreed to keep boyfriend away from girls, and I agreed to not give access to girls if I date. I never told her she could not see him, just that due to the fact he is a 2-time felon who is drinking in the house with the girls, I do not want him near them-he has a history of hitting omen, and I honestly fear for my 2 girl's safety.

We have shared legal custody. She has the 2 girls with her in PA, I am in SC.

In the court order, I am to talk to the girls every night at 7:15pm. She missed call times twice before this week, giving no explination either previous time.

I was given her landline telephone number by a relative if hers 10 days ago, or I would not have spoken to my daughters last saturday, either.

I called her landline saturday, she answered, it was me. She was mad I have her number-she did not provide it to me, she does not want me to call the number. I told her what I was told-I may use whatever number I can get to follow the court-ordered calls. She saw her mom Sunday, and since that time, I have had zero contact with my 2 daughters. She is not checking her e-mail, as she knows I sent e-mail to her.  (Her 16 year old sister told me this)

Now, for 3 days straight, she does not allow contact with my daughters at all, does not respond to e-mails or phone calls.

I am to see the girls this weekend and daily over the next 2 weeks, noon to 8pm, per court order. What do I do now? Do I e-mail the court hearing officer? Not sure what to do, need guidance.

Wife is in Latrobe, PA, westmorelan County, PA

           Saturday, my wife and had a fight over the phone about her 2-DUI boyfriend telling my girls to call him daddy. We went round and round for 30 to 45 minutes on topics, and we were most definately LOUD with eacht other. We ened up talking an hour and a half, and once off the boyfried, it was amicable. She agreed to keep boyfriend away from girls, and I agreed to not give access to girls if I date. I never told her she could not see him, just that due to the fact he is a 2-time felon who is drinking in the house with the girls, I do not want him near them-he has a history of hitting omen, and I honestly fear for my 2 girl's safety.

We have shared legal custody. She has the 2 girls with her in PA, I am in SC.

In the court order, I am to talk to the girls every night at 7:15pm. She missed call times twice before this week, giving no explination either previous time.

I was given her landline telephone number by a relative if hers 10 days ago, or I would not have spoken to my daughters last saturday, either.

I called her landline saturday, she answered, it was me. She was mad I have her number-she did not provide it to me, she does not want me to call the number. I told her what I was told-I may use whatever number I can get to follow the court-ordered calls. She saw her mom Sunday, and since that time, I have had zero contact with my 2 daughters. She is not checking her e-mail, as she knows I sent e-mail to her. (Her 16 year old sister told me this)

Now, for 3 days straight, she does not allow contact with my daughters at all, does not respond to e-mails or phone calls.

I am to see the girls this weekend and daily over the next 2 weeks, noon to 8pm, per court order. What do I do now? Do I e-mail the court hearing officer? Not sure what to do, need guidance.

Wife is in Latrobe, PA, Westmoreland County, PA
 

>Ref,
>
>simple question you state in your post once a order is set it
>is very hard to change. are you referring to a temporary order
>or a order that's been established?
>with temporary orders what do you have to show to change the
>order as compared to a order that's been established for quite
>sometime?
>
>
>Wlr107
>do you have temporary orders in place since you have been
>separated or was there a written agreement between the two?
>the reason I ask is because if you have established some sort
>of pattern it should hold some significance with the courts.
>What I'm saying is if you have had the children with this type
>of visitation pattern she might have to prove something has
>changed in order to stop the current schedule.
******We had no schedule at all. I was allowed to see the girls over Labor day weekend, have 2 calls, then it all stopped. I have my court order now, here is what s going on now: See the post:
Wife not following Court Ordered PHone call schedule...."

She is now ignoring the schedule...and I just want to see my girls. If you would like to see ampyfying nfo on what has happened since the order came down. e-mail me. wlr107  @  yahoo.  com

My wife and I are seperated as of July. She is in PA and I accepted a teaching position in SC, where we both agreed I should go to get loans paid off.

She asked me what I wanted in the custody, and I said I wanted to be fair, joint legal and joint physical custody - 1 month with her, one month with me. (The girls are 2,4-not in school).

She got an attorney last friday, I don't have cash for one, with giving her all my extra cash to help her and the girls.

Well, in our initial conference, her attorney produced two letters from two of my wife's friends...both were total lies.

And just so I can't have the girls with me.

Anyone know of an attorney in PA that will take payments, as I need one, and can afford 100.00 a month.

wlr107