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I ahve recently filed bankrutpcy and now i am being ruled into court for an increase in child support; will the judge even consider the banrutpcy in this action

I have tried with all my power to keep my relationship with my ex g/f as civil and amicable as possible... We split up 2 yrs ago due to her being caught cheating while my daughter was at home. She took me to court July 2007 for court ordered child support; i had no problem with this b/c I was already voluntarily paying her weekly. I was married in Feb. 2007 not long after which time my visitation with my daughter increased and was on a regular basis... I had her every weekend and 5 consecutive weedays (my 7day break from work) my wife is a stay at home mom and I offered daycare to my ex based on my wife being home all the time and my being off during the week on regular basis ( i work swing shifts) this was refused. She has now ruled me into court for an increase in child support, visitation to be cut to every other weekend, request for daycare to be included in my child support. I have no problem taking care of my daughter she is the light of my life (she is 3 btw) I want to seek full custody not b/c i have it out for my ex but b/c my ex continues to use her as a pawn to get at me and this is just not stable for my daughter. There are so many reasons why I just feel that it best for my daughter to be with me. What are the chances this can be accomplished? She has numerous times told me I am not keeping my daughter over night b/c I am keep talking about joint custody or she is afraid that i will not return her (something I have never threatened)
I am so scared that I will not see my daughter b/c I am not playing by her rules... what do i do?