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This was actually a GREAT help. My daughter and her mother have never had a bond. I was always the care giver of the children in my marriage. I don't talk bad about there mom, I recognize that no matter what she does, all children want to be loved and accepted by there mother. I also recognize that my children are living in substandard conditions and it makes me want to jump out of my skin. There are four children in one bedroom (girls and boys) and my ex hasn't worked a legit job in 2 and a half years. He current form of employment is providing erotic massages. There is so much going on that I really feel like I'm taking part in a horror film where my hands are tied and I'm watching my children be eaten alive.

I wouldn't change her school because she's already changed schools three times in the last two years. Her mother refuses to let her go to therapy. She'll be 14 soon so I constantly stay on her about holding on for a few more months. The judge at our divorse was soooo pro mom. The children were actually living with me and my wife and she gave them to my ex. My ex got to court and said I kidnapped the kids and denied her access; when in actuality she deserted the children. It's very difficult to go up against a woman in court. I would rather we wait until the judge really doesn't have a say so.

I have three children with my ex wife. She has sole legal and physical custody of the children ( that's a lonnng story). My 13 year old daughter is miserable and has even resorted to cutting herself because of the relationship with her mother. My daughter will be 14 in Feb and wants to come to live with me and my wife. I know that the age of consent is 14 in GA and that her wishes will more then likely be upheld. However, I'm worried about the children being split up. Has anyone gone through this? Will they split up the children?