Thank you for your suggestions, i dont have alot of money for an attorney, but It sounds like I will have to get it. Who can I contact about the fraud, DSHS in Idaho? Or should I just have the attorney handle it. Also what is the legal paperwork or the name of the court order I can get to force her to take him to the hospital, Dr's , he needs to go to?
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Father's Issues / Re: EX PARTE ISSUED FOR ME TO GET TEMP CUSTODY
Aug 23, 2009, 03:41:24 PM
i have been through this have your lawyer get a writ of Habeus Corpus (sp) it forces her to produce the children. period.
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Father's Issues / Ex on Meth, 8 yr old son with cancer
Aug 23, 2009, 03:20:15 PM
I live in Washington, my ex lives in the same town in Idaho where we were living as a married couple. I am being repeatedly told by neighbors, teachers, and old friends that they think my ex is using drugs, i know she is using meth.
I have tried to divorce her and change the custody, get her to drug test, but she refuses to sign divorce agreements and it gets to the point where I cant afford to keep divorcing her, I just want rid of this marriage. Bottom line is we are still married with nothing filed in the courts at this time.
In the middle of all this my 8 yr old son was recently diagnosed with stage 4 Osteosarcoma, a very deadly form of bone cancer. I pay my child support on time every month, and provide excellent full coverage health insurance through my job that is getting him the best care. My ex has refused to get a job ever, and lives on my child support and welfare. She collects money in my sons name telling them she cant afford medical bills even though i pay for them all it has been about 40,000$ so far, and then my ex funnels it to her brothers bank accounts so that she can still collect welfare. It is fraud, and I know this, and combined with her drug use I could probably put her in jail. But my son is dying.
OK so this is the major issue right now. My insurance will cover my sons treatments at a hospital in Houston, MD Anderson (or anywhere) that specializes in saving the limbs that he might loose to this cancer. I have had him go down there and the doctors there can provide the best care for him. Being as my ex has collected all these donations she has the money to pay for her travel from Idaho to Houston, but she is refusing. All she has to do is go to the airport, everything else is paid for, but because she doesnt want to be away from her dope, and she wants to be able to collect disability if my son has to have his leg amputated ( about1200$ a month) she is making irrational medical decisions that are to her own benefit. My son is only 8, and I dont know how to tell these doctors not to listen to her and do whatever it takes to save his limbs.
What are my legal options? I feel so stuck, I am his insurance provider, there isnt a custody agreement in place. How do I force her to start providing medical care that is in the best interest of our son and not her wallett?
I have tried to divorce her and change the custody, get her to drug test, but she refuses to sign divorce agreements and it gets to the point where I cant afford to keep divorcing her, I just want rid of this marriage. Bottom line is we are still married with nothing filed in the courts at this time.
In the middle of all this my 8 yr old son was recently diagnosed with stage 4 Osteosarcoma, a very deadly form of bone cancer. I pay my child support on time every month, and provide excellent full coverage health insurance through my job that is getting him the best care. My ex has refused to get a job ever, and lives on my child support and welfare. She collects money in my sons name telling them she cant afford medical bills even though i pay for them all it has been about 40,000$ so far, and then my ex funnels it to her brothers bank accounts so that she can still collect welfare. It is fraud, and I know this, and combined with her drug use I could probably put her in jail. But my son is dying.
OK so this is the major issue right now. My insurance will cover my sons treatments at a hospital in Houston, MD Anderson (or anywhere) that specializes in saving the limbs that he might loose to this cancer. I have had him go down there and the doctors there can provide the best care for him. Being as my ex has collected all these donations she has the money to pay for her travel from Idaho to Houston, but she is refusing. All she has to do is go to the airport, everything else is paid for, but because she doesnt want to be away from her dope, and she wants to be able to collect disability if my son has to have his leg amputated ( about1200$ a month) she is making irrational medical decisions that are to her own benefit. My son is only 8, and I dont know how to tell these doctors not to listen to her and do whatever it takes to save his limbs.
What are my legal options? I feel so stuck, I am his insurance provider, there isnt a custody agreement in place. How do I force her to start providing medical care that is in the best interest of our son and not her wallett?
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